The relationship between man and woman
Psychology / / August 12, 2017
Like any woman, I love the ears and love compliments, so my love language - words .But this is not a crime.In the end, everyone hates orders and indulgent to requests, creating the illusion of freedom of choice.Maybe I myself sometimes shamelessly naprashivayas compliments, praise you too little?
It is now, after a sip from the cup of bitter loneliness, I am ready to praise you day and night on the little things, subtly avoiding gross flattery, in which you have had caught me easily.And should you re more subtly, gradually accustomed to their love language.Well, the experience and valuable, allowing wisely utter sacramental: "Never in my life ..." or "Here it is now ...»
only whether to stand on this difficult path, which can also make a standstill?
There was a time when I just looked in your mouth.Meekly sat nearby, listening attentively, stroking his arm and not only on the arm ... Do you like it more than talk, because your language of love - touch.
Love - is tenderness, kind
Men and women holding this language, translate the feelings, emotions and language touches are excellent lovers.But the betrayal of a partner are experiencing heavier than people who prefer other languages of love.
Some men and women just touch the language allows us to understand how they relate to each other .
This language has many dialects - national and cultural.So, it is unlikely immediately recognize each other prim German and temperamental Italian gestures which may be regarded by it as obscene and indecent, and its stiffness accepted them for coldness.And some foreigners our Russian style at the meeting to jump each other's arms may seem at least extravagant antics.
This is probably the most mysterious language of love. glance can fall in love with, or refuse to give hope to inspire an irresistible desire or aversion.A look expresses any sense. all love the language is spoken.The quest for spiritual intimacy with your favorite natural for humans.
touch Language expresses the fusion of passion, views language - the merger of internal "I".Man and woman reading in front of each other's love and tenderness, delight and ecstasy, fatigue and rejection.
Over time, our "I" separated, quarrel, reconciled, we do not listen to each other, do not meet soulful glances, cease to understand each other and love goes.
Of course, I noticed that your eyes have become strangers, but gave no trouble to try to understand what language do you prefer to love, and to learn how to speak it.As, however, and you.We both could, but did not want to.
Language How can we prove our love when both were silent, carefully avoiding views?Only concern. After care - it is the time spent on a loved one .
Of Life "to" as the best that was in it, come up memories of long walks in the park, covered with snow, leisurely conversation about eternal, bright dreams of the future.Sometimes, of course, you had to listen to complaints about the imperfection of the world.Maybe some of them and you're tired?I missed these conversations notorious "heart to heart", and I drag you into them, do not settle with your mood or the situation.Sometimes you joked that quit work, then nothing will hinder us, real happiness will come, and we will become the perfect couple for whom love - this time.
Oh, how silly to hope for a while.It will take a year, and all will settle down.We will stop fighting, the house will be peace and harmony.Only years later you see the absurdity of these hopes.Time is continuous, but moments dedicated to your loved one, do not sink into oblivion.
And yet, when two people live together, both have to sooner or later, to compromise and to change their family stereotypes. offer assistance.Thank each other.While the language of love, that prefers a partner.One to praise, another kiss, a third go to the hated football.In general, to attend.
Of course, I should be more tolerant to you.After all, you provide the family with money.However, in response to my request, you joked: "Always you something is missing."
Yes, I really was not enough.Trifles, trifles.What I was deprived.You do not like the phrase "the road is not a gift and attention", but it was important gift price.You were just brought up, and I wanted colors - just like that, because of the fact that today the sun was shining, and tomorrow it will rain.And the language of gifts have also been different.
Can with the same passion of love a man, with whom relations are exhausted to the bottom?And whether it is necessary, if only ashes left from the bonfire of old feelings?
And if tomorrow I will meet a person who will understand me without words, without hugging embrace only one eye and care without worries mate ...
How to guess its language of love?
- Write on a piece of paper in the left column of all, what you like in your chosen one, and the right - that's annoying.Ask him to do the same.
What's in his "its disadvantages" column?
«She looks at me so cold!" - Meaning that he speaks the language of views.
«She prefers to spend his spare time with his mother and her friends" - in terms of time.
- What do you most offended at each other?
If he is offended when you step back from it, he would like to see you more often to speak to him in the language of touch.
If he is angry, after hearing a request to pour your favorite cacti or take a walk with the dog in his family never expressed love of the language assistance.
- What offended your relatives?
«He never praised me!" - Regularly complains to her father-in-law.Yes, wait for the chance of spontaneous compliments wife a little bit.Well, beloved disciples, how to praise you.
- How do you imagine the perfect husband and the perfect wife?How would they communicate?
ideal fictional wife speak just on the right, we love language.
Date: rapid test for compatibility
clever woman cleverly uses goodbye to closer examination of alleged partner .She knows how thoroughly thought out the standard scenario of courtship.
This scenario gives us an opportunity to talk with the alleged favorite in all the languages of love.
Here he appoints a girl dating a long time waiting for her at the clock (time), he tells her compliments (words) and presenting flowers, invites you to a restaurant (gifts), where they talk (time) and dance (touch), in the locker room, hetakes her coat and leaving support for the elbow (help).
And they look at each other, looking and looking ...